by Melissa Muller | Apr 13, 2026 | Couples
Infidelity is not something anyone expects when they enter a committed, monogamous relationship. When it happens, it is one of the most painful experiences a couple can face. Trust is broken. The future feels uncertain. Emotions run high, and the stress often shows up...
by Melissa Muller | Oct 15, 2025 | Couples
After 27 years of practicing psychology and working with thousands of individuals, couples, and families, I’ve noticed consistent patterns that appear in relationships — both healthy and struggling ones. Over time, I’ve identified what I call the Five Characteristics...
by Melissa Muller | Apr 15, 2025 | Couples
In life, we often carry a basket filled with “rocks” of resentment—each one representing a past hurt, betrayal, or disappointment. I love the image of a basket because it’s a simple way to think about all the weight we hold onto without even realizing it. How full is...
by Melissa Muller | Mar 31, 2025 | Couples
One of my favorite types of counseling to provide is premarital counseling. I love working with couples who are deeply in love, excited about their future, and eager to build a strong foundation for marriage. While premarital counseling isn’t something all couples...
by Melissa Muller | Sep 25, 2024 | Couples, Family, General Mental Health
Often times a perspective new client will call and tell me that they have no idea how the mental health counseling / therapy process goes and they admit to being nervous about beginning therapy. I am happy to chat for a minute or two and explain the process....
by Melissa Muller | Aug 14, 2024 | Couples
Jen and Bruce came to my office for an initial session. Bruce seemed to be angry and Jen was very emotional. I told them my spiel about myself and how I work. I then began the initial interview. I gathered their background information and then asked why they were...
